Builds your relationship map
The people you value, how you know them, and what you have shared—kept in one private place.
A private relationship steward
Keep close to the people who matter.
Life gets busy. Social Gardener remembers the context, notices when a relationship is drifting, and suggests a few thoughtful next steps each week—helping you sustain, deepen and revive relationships you genuinely value.
You choose whom to contact and what to say. Nothing is sent without you.
Someone worth reconnecting with
Sarah M.
ReviveYou haven’t spoken for eight months, and you previously wanted to hear how her new role was developing.
- Suggested approach
- Send a short voice note
- Conversation thread
- Ask what has surprised her most about the move
ConnectTry another approachNot this week
Good relationships rarely end. They simply drift.
We all have people we genuinely value—friends, former colleagues, mentors, clients and neighbours—whom we mean to stay close to. Then life gets busy, months pass, and we remember to call too late.
Social Gardener reduces the inertia: remembering, deciding whom to contact, finding a natural reason and taking the first step.
How it works
Three quiet steps each week.
- 01
Review
A short list matched to your actual capacity—not an inbox of obligations.
- 02
Choose
Accept, decline or change the approach. Your choices help it learn.
- 03
Connect
Message, call or meet. A brief reflection improves the next suggestion.
The weekly review
A few suggestions, with the reasoning shown.
Someone worth reconnecting with
Sarah M.
ReviveYou haven’t spoken for eight months, and you previously wanted to hear how her new role was developing.
- Suggested approach
- Send a short voice note
- Conversation thread
- Ask what has surprised her most about the move
ConnectTry another approachNot this week
- Sustain
- Protect a relationship you already value.
- Deepen
- Create space for greater mutual understanding.
- Revive
- Reconnect before a valued relationship quietly disappears.
Quiet work, done in the background.
Learns your intentions
Tell it whom you want to stay close to, and how often feels natural. It follows your lead.
Explains why now
Every suggestion comes with its reason, so you can judge it rather than simply obey it.
Finds the conversation thread
A specific, genuine thing worth picking up again—so getting in touch never feels hollow.
Designed for relationships, not networking
Human, not transactional
People are never ranked primarily by usefulness, status or influence. A relationship is worth tending because it matters to you.
Attention, not quotas
No streaks, scores or pressure to keep up. A few considered steps each week, matched to the attention you actually have.
Private, with agency
Your context stays yours. Social Gardener never contacts anyone autonomously—you decide whom to contact, what to say and whether to act.
Privacy
Your relationships are nobody else’s business.
Social Gardener is built as a private steward. The context you record is used to help you decide what to do next—not to advertise to you, and not to sell or share with other people.
It never messages, emails or calls anyone on your behalf. Suggestions stay suggestions until you act on them, and you can decline, edit or delete anything it has remembered.
During early access we will tell you plainly what we store and why, and you can ask us to remove your details at any time.
Don’t let valuable relationships go to seed.
Join the early-access programme and help shape a more thoughtful way to sustain the relationships that matter.